Although pleasure, love and grace are ephemeral, trust them and follow them, for they contain the meaning of life.

"Pleasure, love and grace are not man's to control. They come from identifying with life, and rejoicing in its splendor, vitality, and beauty. Although pleasure, love and grace are ephemeral, trust them and follow them, for they contain the meaning of life." – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

"Meaning of life" | Human dignity | Inspiration | Quotes | Well-being | Wisdom | Energy | Values

On the happy trail

On New Year's Day, depressed by yet another article on Britain's 'happiness crisis', I took a sheet of paper, ruled it in two, and in the left-hand column began listing all the things that were getting me down. This is what I wrote: 'My grey hairs... my impending tax bill... my failure to write a bestseller... the commute to King's Cross on the Hammersmith and City Line.' (The list was actually much longer than this, but you get the gist.) Then I turned to the right-hand column and began listing all the things that were a source of happiness in my life: 'My good health... my wife and children... my friends... playing tennis (when I win).'

To my surprise, this exercise immediately lifted my spirits, and before I knew it the items in the right-hand column outnumbered those in the left. Then I got to thinking some more. Were there other approaches I could adopt, other attitudes or ways of thinking about my life that would also be likely to increase my total sum of happiness? In search of an answer, I immersed myself in the works of Plato, Aristotle and other great philosophers. I also began reading as many self-help books as I could lay my hands on: books like the Dalai Lama's The Art of Happiness and Norman Vincent Peale's The Power of Positive Thinking - of which the cover of the UK paperback edition boasts 'over 15m copies sold'. But while these experts had many useful insights (the Dalai Lama suggested I cultivate a spirit of compassion, while Peale advised that happiness was a matter of being more optimistic), none of them spoke directly to my own experience.

Then I heard about Authentic Happiness by Martin Seligman, a professor of psychology at the University of Pennsylvania. In his book, Seligman describes how every New Year he takes a sheet of paper, just as I did, and draws up an inventory of his life. The difference is that instead of listing the things that are making him happy or unhappy, he writes down his key life 'domains' (love, profession, friends, play) and assigns them a rating on a scale of one to 10. Having performed this exercise every year for the past decade, Seligman says he can now see at a glance whether his happiness 'trajectory' is on the up or going down, and where there is room for improvement. 'I recommend this procedure to you,' he writes. 'It pins you down, leaves little room for self- deception, and tells you when to act.'

As a guru of the new positive psychology movement - dedicated to the optimisation of 'positive emotions' - Seligman argues that there are no short cuts to happiness. Enhancing joy, rapture and contentment depends on our cultivating optimistic personality traits and Aristotelian virtues such as wisdom, justice, love and humanity. 'Positive emotion alienated from the exercise of character leads to emptiness, to inauthenticity, to depression and, as we age, to the gnawing realisation that we are fidgeting until we die,' he warns.

Hedonism | Inspiration | Optimism | Well-being | Empathy | Energy | Values | Perspective

"The optimist proclaims that we live in the best of all possible worlds, and the pessimist fears this is true."

The optimist proclaims that we live in the best of all possible worlds, and the pessimist fears this is true.
- James Branch Cabell

Fear | Idealism | Inspiration | Optimism | Quotes | Energy | Perspective

"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world..."

What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls a butterfly.
- Richard Bach

Evolution | Inspiration | Optimism | Extropy | Perspective

"The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes."

The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.
- Frank Lloyd Wright

Aging and life extension | Boredom | Frank Lloyd Wright | Inspiration | Quotes

"...dirt that has learned to see the awe and the majesty of the universe."

I am nothing and nobody; atoms that have learned to look at themselves; dirt that has learned to see the awe and the majesty of the universe.
- Geoffrey A. Landis

Cosmology | Evolution | Inspiration | Quotes | Extropy

"Far more marvelous is the truth than any artist of the past imagined."

Far more marvelous is the truth than any artist of the past imagined. Why do poets of the present not speak of it?
-Richard Feynman

Art | Inspiration | Memetics | Philosophy | Quotes | Rationality | Richard Feynman | Science | Truth | Empathy | Extropy

"Every act of creation is an act of hope."

So we reach for art and music, though we know it will be flawed,
Yet in striving to do better, we are reaching out to God.
We are reaching for perfection, and it's not beyond our scope;
Every act of creation is an act of hope.
- Catherine Faber, Acts of Creation

Art | Creativity | Inspiration | Music | Quotes

"Not all those who wander are lost."

Not all those who wander are lost.
- J.R.R. Tolkien

Creativity | Innovation | Inspiration | Intuition | Problem-solving | Quotes | Energy | Perspective

"The greatest happiness you can have is knowing..."

The greatest happiness you can have is knowing that you do not necessarily require happiness.
- William Saroyan

Inspiration | Quotes | Energy | Values

"Do every act of your life as if it were your last."

Do every act of your life as if it were your last.
- Marcus Aurelius

Inspiration | Quotes | Energy

"...to be still in the midst of activity and to be vibrantly alive in repose."

You must learn to be still in the midst of activity and to be vibrantly alive in repose.
- Indira Gandhi

Inspiration | Quotes | Energy

"Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice."

Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.
- William Jennings Bryan

Inspiration | Leadership | Quotes | Energy | Efficiency | Extropy

"I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul."

I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul.
- William E. Henley

Decision-making | Inspiration | Leadership | Quotes | Energy | Efficiency | Extropy

"...no sorrow so great that does not find its background in joy."

There is no sorrow so great that does not find its background in joy.
- Niels Bohr

Inspiration | Quotes | Empathy
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